S -E - X! It may be good for your heart , great for your mood
and even work wonders on your skin , but not all types
offer the same benefits .
you wishing you hadn ’ t wasted your good underwear &
clean sheets on a brief fling with s * xual mediocrity .
Here are the 4 types of s * x to avoid at all cost.
Break - Up s * x : It may seem appealing to take one last ride
on that pony for old time ’ s sake , but the consequences
will likely outweigh the benefits . You ’ re breaking up ,
which means something isn’ t working . And even if s * x
isn ’ t the cause of your break- up , it can complicate an
already delicate situation . For instance , it’ s easy for your
partner to misconstrue your intentions . When it comes to
break- up s * x , you don’ t want your “ It has been a pleasure
doing business with you , ” to be misinterpreted for a
“ Thank you . Come again !” Even if you ’ re the type who
makes your intentions crystal clear , science still offers
warnings against break- up s * x . Romantic rejection and
heartbreak trigger the same parts of the brain associated
with pain, distress and addiction . It takes time to reduce
these triggers and when the wound is fresh , you don’ t
want to train your body to link s * x with these conditions .
Drunk s * x : A few drinks may loosen you up and help you
to shed your inhibitions , but be sure to limit how many
glasses you down as you may end up shedding and
downing more than you bargained for . “ Bottom ’ s up ”
may be in good fun at the bar , but you need to decide
whether you ’ re open to letting it take on a whole new
meaning bedside . If you plan on drinking, bear in mind
that alcohol impairs your judgment . Booze goggles not
only cause light- of- day regret the following morning , but
also reduce the likelihood of using condoms and other
safer s * x tools – so plan ahead. And that liquid
confidence may seemingly improve your performance on
the dance floor, but it can have the opposite effect
sexually. Alcohol impacts your body ’ s s * xual response
and circulation making erections and lubrication harder to
come by .
Self- Pity s * x ( The One Night Stand) : If you ’ re having a
little pity party for yourself and think that a one - night
stand will elevate your spirits , you may want to think
again – especially if you ’ re a woman . While a one - time
roll in the hay (or nightclub restroom stall ) can be fun for
some , women seem to get the short end of the stick when
it comes to casual s * x . And the short sticks aren’ t to
blame. Research shows that over half (54 per cent) of
women often feel disappointed by one - night stands and
report high levels of regret the morning after . On the other
hand , 80 per cent of men feel positively about the
experience and say that it helps them to blow off some
steam . Steam ? Is that what they ’ re calling it these days ?
So before you take the plunge and turn to casual s * x to
lift your spirits , be sure to consider other ways to crash
the pity party .
Make -Up s * x : Experts are split on this one and you can
decide for yourself whether make - up s * x works for you .
Some psychologists believe that it rewards fighting ,
drama and generally bad behaviour. They suggest that
couples are dealing with intensely negative emotions and
instead of finding a resolution, they seek an opposite
experience ( pleasure) in s * x . They argue that this type of
s * x isn ’ t “ real intimacy” and that it can lead to loneliness
and the belief that everything can be fixed with s * x . What
a world it would be if this were true!
If you find yourself enticed by these four types of s * x ,
you may want to take a moment to reconsider . And if
you ’ re still tempted, at least consider the laundry!
Source : MSN
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